fractalpotato
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Jun 11, 2017
Actually, sharing personal financial information doesn't seem very healthy. I'm trying to imagine the conversation...
You: We've decided to add a trip to WDW to our wedding trip. (That seems like a normal discussion.)
Coworker: So who's paying for the trip? (Screech!!! I can't even imagine this and it would be met with a comment like, why would you ask that?)
Since you seem to really care for this girl, I would suggest that you stop talking about the lack in her salary as well as personal details of how you two are building your relationship. I think that she would be hurt to hear your coworkers discuss her so negatively.
I don't speak of her "lack of a salary", as I've mentioned above, people know either from her discussing it in their presence (friends) or from simply knowing what her job is and what that industry pays (coworkers). They are nosy and out of line but indulging their one obnoxious comment on the subject is better than having them annoyed at me for ignoring them and harassing me all week.
I'm not sure why you would even feel the need to ask this question. If you didn't have a problem with the math, you wouldn't have posted this thread.
I don't have a problem with the math, of anything I'd rather pay more. My question was if I should have a problem with the math, sounds like I shouldn't, which is great. I posted this to get a neutral third party opinion because I have a history of missing flags in this particular minefield. Which is why people are concerned with the subject.
Matt