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I have a question and need some advice. DD is 16 and has a new bff w/in the last couple years. Nice girl, good student, bad influence. DH hadn't agreed. Now have reason to believe DD and new BFF have been drinking at other girls house. DH & I disagree on how to handle this and wanted to get some advice from those who have been through it before. I don't want DD at her house, she can come to ours. I want to talk to other parent because if it was reversed and at my house and I didn't know, I sure would want someone to tell me. I'm also concerned maybe other parent knows and doesn't care which is a whole other issue. Am I making too big a deal out of it? I also don't want to overreact because I know kids try stuff but DD is a good student and kid and I don't want her heading down the wrong path. UGH. any advice? thanks.
I have a question and need some advice. DD is 16 and has a new bff w/in the last couple years. Nice girl, good student, bad influence. DH hadn't agreed. Now have reason to believe DD and new BFF have been drinking at other girls house. DH & I disagree on how to handle this and wanted to get some advice from those who have been through it before. I don't want DD at her house, she can come to ours. I want to talk to other parent because if it was reversed and at my house and I didn't know, I sure would want someone to tell me. I'm also concerned maybe other parent knows and doesn't care which is a whole other issue. Am I making too big a deal out of it? I also don't want to overreact because I know kids try stuff but DD is a good student and kid and I don't want her heading down the wrong path. UGH. any advice? thanks.